Friday, August 23, 2013

August 21, 2013


In the morning of my life I shall look to the sunrise.
At a moment in my life when the world is new.
And the blessing I shall ask is that God will grant me,
To be brave and strong and true,
And to fill the world with love my whole life through.

In the noontime of my life I shall look to the sunshine,
At a moment in my life when the sky is blue.
And the blessing I shall ask shall remain unchanging.
To be brave and strong and true,
And to fill the world with love my whole life through

In the evening of my life I shall look to the sunset,
At a moment in my life when the night is due.
And the question I shall ask only I can answer.
Was I brave and strong and true?
Did I fill the world with love my whole life through?




This song from the movie “Goodbye Mr. Chips” is one of my very favorites. It has become my theme song while I have been here in Ukraine…………….to be brave, to be strong, to be true to God and to show love to all those around me. The people here are easy to love and I have learned so much from them.

Riding on the tram going to the temple at 5:30 in the morning I have learned humility and gratitude. I feel so blessed to be going to such a beautiful peaceful place but on that same tram with me are hundreds of other people heading to markets and bazaars to work from 6:00 AM until 7:00 PM in the heat, cold, wind, rain or whatever the day may bring. Some of them look so weary but they are always there with the carts and bags and whatever they need to take to work to be able to live.





I have learned kindness and love from so many people here. The lady in the market that when she sees me automatically says “Romaine” and who will leave her stand and go out of her way to find me some Romaine whether I need it or not; the ticket ladies on the busses that find someone to give me their seat which is really embarrassing (do I look that old); my friends that want to show me the beauties of their city and are willing to do it on their free time; the loving Eastern Europeans that give so many hugs and smiles at the temple (that is the way we communicate); the primary children in our branch, the wonderful missionaries, and all the people I work with at the service center and the temple. With that many people to love, who couldn’t be happy all day. Of course there are way too many for me to   even begin to name them all…….. Victor, Gregorio, Sveta, Valencia, Helena, Lydia, Zoya, Olga, Leesa……………….In the next month I will do a blog of all the wonderful faces of Kyiv but this was a busy and exciting past week so I’ll take time to tell about it.

I will start with last Friday the 16th. My adorable friend Sveta who has been in a few of my past blogs came to our apartment for a missionary discussion. Elder Karadzhov and Elder Porter came to teach her. It was a wonderful experience even though I really could not understand much of what was said. She truly has a special spirit.


Sveta with plant she brought to me

Elder Porter and Elder Karadzhov

Saturday was the wedding shower for Irina. It was absolutely so much fun. Wedding showers are not really something that is done in Ukraine but maybe it will become a new tradition after this one.  We had the shower at the lounge area at the Stake Center.  A friend drove me there with my eight huge bags full of food, decorations, prizes and gifts.   For games we played the make a wedding dress out of toilet paper contest; who can keep from crossing their legs contest, the bride guessing what the groom knew about her and "words of wisdom."  Just some common wedding shower games but they all turned out really fun. Then we had a luncheon. The girls at work thought that maybe about twelve people would come so that is how many we planned for and there were twenty so it was really successful. The only problem after the shower was getting all the presents packed up compact enough to carry  home on the metro. (I was down to one small bag, thank heavens.)  Vladimir, the groom,  came with a backpack to help Irina take the gifts home. What a surprise for him.  Next week I'll have all the wedding news.
 





Some of the shower guests

On Sunday evening Sveta invited me to go with her and her daughter to a concert celebrating the 1025 anniversary of the Baptism of Kyiv. It was an amazing concert with many great performers and the historic subtitles were in English.  It really helped me gain an understanding of why the orthodox religion is so important to a lot of people here. Over the years they have had many of their priests martyred or imprisoned and they have been persecuted by the non-believers.  During Soviet times, many of their churches were totally destroyed and they were not allowed freedom to worship as they are now. We have some of the same events in the history of our church and it does increase your testimony and love for the Lord.

 We walked to the concert and home which was about five miles each way but it was a beautiful evening and we enjoyed our time together.  It was interesting to watch all of the people walking to home, metros or busses from the concert.  We also passed Olimpiska Stadium where a soccer game had just ended and we guessed Ukraine had lost because the fans weren't very jovial as they are when the Dynamo's have won.  We  crossed through Taras Shevchenka Park it was full of  families who had gathered to enjoy their Sunday evening.  This was a side of the night life in Kyiv I had never seen .  

Palats Ukraina Concert Hall

finale at concert
Winter garden in concert hall


outside after the concert
Catholic Church we walked by on the way home.
August 19th  Orthodox Church celebrates the Transfiguration Feast. The Tranfiguration is ranked as one of the Twelve Great Feasts of the Orthodox liturgical calendar.

In Ukraine, this holiday is also called the second Savior feast or “Apple” Savior (Yabluchnyj Spas) . Besides apples, on this day faithful bring to the churches other fruits and crops: peas, potatoes, cucumbers, rye, barley, etc. Blessing of grapes and various fruits and vegetables on this day symbolizes prosperity and fertility of all creation in eternal life.  There are many people that have brought their apples, honey, herbs, vegetables and flowers to sell to those who would like to participate.  It is very similar to the blessing of the baskets of food at Easter.


Vendors outside of church selling items to use for blessing (does this seem a bit familiar to the vendors outside of the temple in Jerusalem)



Vladimir's Church  
Blessing of fruits and vegetables
Monday was also another holiday.  It was the birthday  of the tram.  We are not quit sure which birthday but the tram we rode (and the only one we saw like it) was all decorated with balloons, banners, pictures, curtains and new shiny seats.  


The birthday tram
One of the pictures on Birthday Tram

Tuesday was transfer and going home day for some great missionaries. Elder Karadzhov, Sister Filipovska, Sister Busch and Elder Perkins are heading home and since Elder Feuz will be the only one going home next transfer he joined them for the farewell events.


Elder Karadzhov, Elder Feuz, Elder Perkins

Sister Filipovska and Sister Busch

Missionaries going home (except Elder Feuz) with Pres. and Sister Klebingat

Actually Elder Feuz  will be going home on the same flight that we are on October 2nd and we are so excited that he will be with us all the way to Utah. We have so many happy memories of when he was here in Kyiv.

Tuesday evening we took Elder Grange, his new companion Elder Landry and Elder Hinkson to dinner.  Elder Hinkson is from Smithfield, Utah and there are ten children in his family, two of whom were adopted from Ukraine.  Elder Landry is from Mississippi.
 
Dinner with Elders Grange, Hinkson, and Landry

Wednesday was a special day at the temple. I was able to meet Brother Visile who is the Romanian District President that I wrote about several blogs ago that came to Canada in a container on a container ship. He is so awesome and has a wonderful family. He also has so many wonderful thoughts. I’m waiting for his story to become the next “Mormon Movie”.    I was also able to attend the sealing of a young couple from Donetsk, the Barbakov’s. His brother is leaving soon and will be serving in the Spokane Washington Mission. 



Romanian District President Brother Vasili

Barbakova Wedding Picture
So that was my wonderful week. 
 
Quote for the week by Elder Russell M. Nelson:

Love for family and friends, great as it may be, is much more profound when anchored in the love of Jesus Christ. Parental love for children has more meaning here and hereafter because of Him. All loving relationships are elevated in Him. Love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ provides the illumination, inspiration, and motivation to love others in a loftier way."


Kyiv Ukraine Temple, August 2013

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

August 10, 2013


It is so nice to be back in Kyiv. It is fun to go away and see all the new and exciting things out in the world but coming back you all of a sudden realize all the beautiful things around you including the amazing people here in Ukraine.

Sunrise from our apartment window


We enjoyed a pretty mild July with temperatures in the 70’s (23 C) but August is just the weather that the vacationers love, 88 degrees F (31 C). I met some men from Amsterdam and they said they had come to Kyiv to go to the beaches. Yes we do have beaches in Kyiv, along the Dneiper River. And everyone here loves going to the beach.

Beaches in Kyiv


On Friday we had a zone conference with the missionaries. It is always so fun to be with the young elders and sisters. They are so obedient to the mission rules and have an amazing enthusiasm for missionary work. President Klebingat is just sure that we have the best, most obedient missionaries anywhere in the world………….I hope every mission president thinks that. Their ability to learn Russian can only be explained as the gift of tongues. Oh, and did I mention that they can devour about twenty family size pizza’s in a matter of minutes?









President Klebingat








Speaking of missionary work, I guess I should insert pictures from our dinner in Moscow with the Office of General Counsel Staff. That is the main reason that we went to Moscow was for Gary to attend meetings there. He will also be going back next week to meet with the Area Presidency but I will be staying here in Kyiv during that trip.

Dinner with Moscow OGC

Sister Belnap and Nadia (our driver)


Now that it is summer vacation month the temple is filled to capacity with wonderful saints doing the work for their deceased relatives. It is wonderful to see all of the people flooding in from Russia and renewing acquaintances from other visits here. I have been working three shifts a week as many Kyiv workers are also on vacation. There is really no better way to spend the day.

The Felsteds (from Idaho now serving in Hungary with Son and his new Ukrainian Wife )

Beautiful flowers


Wednesday Sister Galbraith and I went on a little sightseeing adventure after the morning session at the temple. They will be leaving the first of November and there were a few things she wanted to see in the city Center. A lot of the places we visited she remembered driving by and it made me realize the difference in having a car and using public transportation or walking everywhere. You really see and appreciate your surroundings so much more at a slower pace. As Temple Presidents they have to travel quite a bit and it is so much easier for them to have a car for transportation but I do think you miss out a little on the sights of the city when some of your touring is just drive by.
 
Sister Galbraith
House with Chimeras


Golda Meir's Birthplace




First Meeting House of LDS Branch

Mariyinskiy Palace under restoration

Mariysinskiy Park

Friendship arch

Puppet Theatre

Statue by Kissing Bridge




Another exciting thing I was able to do this weekend was go to the Ivan Kavaliridze Museum with my friend Sveta. Ivan Kavaliridze is the Ukrainian Michelangelo. He is a sculptor, a dramatist and a stage director. His creative work lasted for sixty-seven years beginning with his sculpture of Princess Olga (1911) to his monument to Grigoriy Skovoroda (1978). The museum is in his house and workshop on St. Andrew’s descent.  There is a small garden by the museum with several of his sculptures that are too large for the Museum. The original of the first monument to Princess Olga, unfortunately beheaded by the Bolsheviks, is among them. Sveta had arranged for her friend Victor, a man that had worked side by side with Kavaliridze to take us on a tour of the museum. We had a wonderful afternoon and I learned so much about the great sculptor that created so many works of art that I have seen in Kyiv and also in other cities in Ukraine.
 

Ivan Kavaleridze 1887-1978

Leo Tolstoy


Uraslav the Wise

Yaraslav Monument at the Golden Gate


Princess Olga

Sveta and Victor


On Sunday the embassy families started returning and it is so good to have them back. We were able to begin primary again and I have missed being with the children and singing the wonderful songs of the gospel with them. It is also a reminder that school will be starting soon. This summer went by so fast.
Primary girls

  
Our friends the Ricks also came back through Kyiv on their way home to Rexburg and we were able to have lunch with them.
 
With the Ricks at Lunch


So here we are in the dog days of summer and cherishing each passing day. So as I was thinking about the blessings of life I came across these “I’ve learned” statements from Omer B. Washington. There are hundreds of these kinds of things written but I thought this list was particularly good and maybe you will like it too.








 
I’ve learned-
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned-
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned-
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned-
that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned-
that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned-
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned-
that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Flowers at Kyiv Temple